你是不是很难过?
“Are… Are you sad?”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
“Why do you sound like you're crying?”
你 是不是 很难过 ?
“Are… Are you sad?”
我不知道是难过
“I don't know whether I'm sad”
“You sound like you are crying; please let me comfort you and do not hide your pain.”
Rather than directly demanding someone tell their problems, Chinese speakers often use affirmative-negative tags like '是不是' to delicately verify emotional distress without cornering the listener.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
is it true that / aren't you
Commonly placed before adjectives or verbs to soften an inquiry while checking whether an assumption is accurate.