这可是你说的啊
“Those are your own words.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
你觉得呢 这些内宅之务 儿子都听母亲的
“What say you? Mother's word is law. No objections.”
这可是你说的 啊
“Those are your own words.”
那你的亲事
“Then I shall”
“You promised to obey me on household affairs, so don't you dare object when I decide your marriage.”
In traditional Chinese households, domestic affairs and arranged marriages fall under the matriarch's authority; verbal concessions are strategically locked in to manage children's life choices.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
You said it yourself; remember you promised
Essential conversational chunk used immediately after someone makes a concession or promise to pin them to their word.
Adds an emphatic, cautionary tone, reminding the interlocutor of their commitment.