你是怎么对她下得去手的
“How could you bring yourself to harm her?”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
你是 怎么 对她 下得去手 的
“How could you bring yourself to harm her?”
“How can you be so utterly heartless to hurt her?”
Invoking empathy and attacking an opponent's moral integrity (having a conscience) is a primary rhetorical tactic in interpersonal confrontations.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
to have the heart to harm someone; to bring oneself to do something cruel
Commonly used in rhetorical questions to express moral shock at someone's cruel or unscrupulous behavior.
Emphasizes the manner and psychological possibility of committing such a harsh action.