我那是苦口婆心
“I was trying to persuade you”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
被说了还不敢回嘴
“Even when someone criticized me, I didn't dare talk back.”
我 那是 苦口婆心
“I was trying to persuade you”
“to turn back while you still could.”
“I only nagged you for your own good, so stop acting like the victim.”
In Chinese culture, severe verbal reprimands from elders or close allies are often defended under the banner of loving concern, placing moral pressure on the listener to accept the advice gratefully.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
urging someone with painstaking and heartfelt advice
Use this classic idiom when defending your persistent nagging as being solely motivated by the other person's welfare.