你要么就奔着结婚跟她去 要么你就别动花心思
“Either you date her with marriage in mind. Or don't get any ideas.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
跟咱都不一样
“She's not like us.”
你要么就 奔着结婚 跟她去 要么你就 别动 花心思
“Either you date her with marriage in mind. Or don't get any ideas.”
“You're not ready for it. You can't handle it.”
Direct spoken expression in this communicative setting.
In traditional and mainstream Chinese dating culture, dating without the end goal of marriage is often viewed as irresponsible, leading close friends to strongly discourage casual flings with 'decent' partners.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
aiming for / heading toward with a clear goal
Highly colloquial pattern meaning to do something strictly with a specific objective in mind.
to harbor dishonest, flirtatious, or ulterior motives
Used disapprovingly to describe someone playing games or being insincere in romantic contexts.
