咱们不能拿三个孩子
“we cannot gamble with”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
男方又拒绝支付抚养费的话
“and the man refuses to pay child support,”
咱们 不能 拿三个孩子
“we cannot gamble with”
未来的生活去打赌
“the children's future.”
Direct spoken expression in this communicative setting.
In Chinese legal mediation involving divorce, legal professionals heavily emphasize the long-term well-being and financial stability of the offspring above parents' disputes.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
cannot gamble with / cannot risk...
Used to firmly emphasize that an asset, life, or future is too critical to be left to chance.