你那又不是什么 丢脸的事
“What happened to you is not embarrassing.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
若是能一辈子 都待在这个屋里就好
“If only I can stay in this room for a lifetime.”
你那 又不是 什么 丢脸的事
“What happened to you is not embarrassing.”
“It is the one you didn't choose that is pathetic, right?”
Direct spoken expression in this communicative setting.
In Chinese culture, feeling 'diu lian' (losing face) causes deep psychological distress; reassuring someone that their actions are not shameful is a potent form of comfort.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
it's not like... / it isn't even...
Used defensively or reassuringly to reject an unfounded negative premise.
a shameful thing / an embarrassing matter
Pertains directly to losing face or doing something socially disgraceful.