我说这事得征求一下你的意见
“I didn't tell her for sure. I said I needed to ask you.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
我没说死啊
“I didn't tell her for sure. I said I needed to ask you.”
我说 这事得征求一下你的意见
“I didn't tell her for sure. I said I needed to ask you.”
“After all, you never wanted me involved in your family matters.”
“I'm not cutting you out; I actually value your input and haven't made up my mind yet.”
Navigating boundaries in extended families is delicate; failing to consult a spouse on family matters often causes long-term resentment regarding their status as an 'outsider'.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
seek your opinion / consult you
A polite, considerate phrasing frequently used in family or business negotiations to solicit consensus.
to make a definitive, irrevocable statement
Used in the context turn ('我没说死啊') to imply leaving room for maneuver or negotiation.
VOCABULARY & EXPRESSIONS
Parallel Spoken Cinema Scenes (语义近邻切片)
“for your opinion on this.”
“I'd like to hear your opinion”
“Just make your own decision. If you think we are lacking in marketing budget,”
“I'd have liked to ask for your opinion.”