不大会说话 我就是这个意思
“how to talk properly, but this is what I mean.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
也得要顾家里 对对对 其实我这个人啊
“he has to take care of his family. Right. In fact, I don't know”
不大会说话 我 就是这个意思
“how to talk properly, but this is what I mean.”
当然了 话也得说回来了 男人在外打拼
“Anyway, of course, a man works hard outside”
“Please excuse my bluntness; don't misunderstand my good intentions.”
In Chinese culture, claiming one is 'not good at speaking' is a conventional modesty device to avoid appearing arrogant and to encourage the listener to be lenient.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
not very good at speaking / not articulate
A polite, self-effacing idiom used to lower expectations or apologize in advance for awkward phrasing.
that's exactly what I mean
Used to confirm alignment and emphasize one's genuine sentiment.