怎么我处个对象 就跟打仗一样
“dating you is like fighting a war.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
我有时候觉得
“Sometimes I feel like”
怎么 我 处个对象 就 跟打仗一样
“dating you is like fighting a war.”
“First, you refused to come back.”
“Dating should not be this exhausting; why does everything have to be an uphill battle?”
Dating and marriage in 20th-century urban China often involved family status, work unit approvals, and social mobility, turning romance into an exhausting ordeal.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
to date someone; to be in a romantic relationship
A colloquial northern Chinese term widely used to describe being in a serious dating relationship.
just like fighting a war; chaotic and exhausting
Used metaphorically to emphasize that an activity is extremely stressful, noisy, or chaotic.
VOCABULARY & EXPRESSIONS
Parallel Spoken Cinema Scenes (语义近邻切片)
“I heard you've found a girlfriend.”
“That's what you should look for in seeking a man.”
“I'm sure you can find all kinds of ideal partners. I'll arrange the blind dates for you tomorrow.”
“with Lin Jianshe? I already told you.”
“Look, my boyfriend”
“She's my girl. None of your business. And I'm your mother!”