又不是你推她的 她是自己摔倒的 难过什么
“You didn't push her. She fell over herself. Why should you be upset?”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
“You're still thinking about that silly girl?”
又不是 你推她的 她是 自己 摔倒的 难过什么
“You didn't push her. She fell over herself. Why should you be upset?”
傻不傻
“Isn't it silly?”
“You didn't do anything wrong, so stop tormenting yourself over something you couldn't control.”
Close friends or partners in China frequently use slightly blunt, rhetorical questions to snap a loved one out of unproductive self-blame.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
it is not as if / it's not like
Used at the beginning of a clause to reject an unjustified assumption or to minimize someone's unwarranted anxiety or guilt.
what is there to be sad about?
A rhetorical phrase commonly used to comfort someone by pointing out that their sorrow is unnecessary.
Functions in the 'shi... de' construction emphasizing the manner or factual nature of the action (she fell on her own).
