瞧瞧你那自暴自弃的样
“Look at you, feeling sorry for yourself.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
不是被开除
“not fired.”
瞧瞧 你那 自暴自弃 的样
“Look at you, feeling sorry for yourself.”
你能不能听我说两句话呀 好 你说 你说 你说
“Will you let me say something? Fine. Go ahead.”
“Stop acting like a pathetic loser and get a grip.”
In close Chinese relationships, harsh criticism (恨铁不成钢, 'resenting iron for not becoming steel') is often used to jolt a loved one out of despair.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
to give up on oneself / defeatist / wallowing in self-pity
A common four-character idiom (chengyu) describing abandoning all hope and effort.
just look at how (pathetic/ridiculous) you are
A highly colloquial, mocking template used to express contempt for someone's demeanor or physical state.