你是不是觉得自己很伟大 很能牺牲
“Do you think you're being noble and making a big sacrifice?”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
对吧
“right?”
你是不是觉得 自己 很伟大 很能牺牲
“Do you think you're being noble and making a big sacrifice?”
你应该把你所有的情况都告诉她 让她自己选
“You should've told her everything and let her choose.”
“Stop playing the noble martyr; you're just taking away her right to make her own choice.”
In modern Chinese emotional dynamics, unsolicited self-sacrifice ('感动自己' / self-indulgent nobility) is increasingly criticized as paternalistic and disempowering to the partner.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
do you really think; don't tell me you believe
Used as a rhetorical opening to dismantle someone's assumption or self-righteous mindset.
so good at sacrificing; playing the martyr
Used here critically to describe someone who indulges in self-sacrificing behavior at others' expense.
