那人家不喜欢我穷追猛打 我不得尊重她吗
“But she doesn't like me being so aggressive. Shouldn't I respect that?”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
动动脑子行不行
“Use your brain, will you?”
那 人家 不喜欢我 穷追猛打 我 不得 尊重她吗
“But she doesn't like me being so aggressive. Shouldn't I respect that?”
《孙子兵法》讲战略 《三十六计》讲战术
“The Art of War is about strategy. The Thirty-Six Stratagems is about tactics.”
“Don't lecture me; she doesn't want to be hounded, so I'm playing it safe to avoid total rejection.”
In contemporary Chinese dating discourse, there is an active debate between traditional persistence ('relentless pursuit') and respecting boundaries without being perceived as intrusive.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
to relentlessly pursue someone without letting up
Commonly used in dating or competition to describe pursuing someone vigorously and aggressively.
use your head; think for a moment
A colloquial and blunt way to tell someone to stop being foolish and think strategically.
Forms a rhetorical question to demand agreement and defend the speaker's stance.
