我这好心好意地给她一个单子 人家还不领情
“I kindly offered her a deal, but she just refused.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
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我这 好心好意 地给她一个单子 人家 还不 领情
“I kindly offered her a deal, but she just refused.”
活生生地把我赶出来了
“She practically kicked me out.”
“I did her a huge favor, and she completely humiliated and rejected me.”
In Chinese social relations, offering an opportunity or gift is an act of goodwill; refusing it harshly or failing to show appreciation ('bu lingqing') damages social harmony and causes serious loss of face to the giver.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
with all the best intentions; out of pure goodwill
Often invoked when a good deed backfires or is met with ingratitude.
to show no gratitude; to fail to appreciate someone's kindness
Used to criticize someone who turns down or disparages a helpful gesture.