我都离开这么久了
“I have been away for so long.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
你拉倒吧
“Come on.”
我 都 离开 这么久了
“I have been away for so long.”
我觉得现在挺好的
“I think things are pretty good now,”
“Too much time has passed to go back; drop it.”
Following a sharp rebuff like '拉倒吧' (drop it), speakers often invoke practical realities such as time elapsed to shut down unrealistic counter-proposals.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
been away for this long
A standard construction to highlight significant temporal distance from a departure.
Functions as a sentence-final particle expressing a change of state and emphasizing the accumulation of elapsed time.