侄儿想求您 能不能 先不要给侄儿说亲
“Could you not arrange a match for me just yet?”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
侄儿想求您 能不能 先 不要 给侄儿说亲
“Could you not arrange a match for me just yet?”
等春闱落定后再说
“Wait until after the metropolitan exam.”
“Please don't force marriage proposals on me right now; I have other priorities.”
In traditional Chinese society, marriage is arranged by elders; defying or asking to delay matchmaking requires extreme deference and careful justification such as imperial exams.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
an presumptuous request; an unreasonable plea
A classic humble idiom used before making a request that might inconvenience or displease the listener.
to arrange a match; to propose a marriage
Traditional term referring to matchmaking arranged by family elders or matchmakers.