你的出身 我爸妈可以不计较
“My parents will ignore your background,”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
现实点
“Be realistic.”
你的出身 我爸 妈可以 不计较
“My parents will ignore your background,”
“but you can't meet your poor relatives again.”
“We are doing you a massive favor by accepting someone of your class, so you need to fall in line.”
The traditional concept of matching socioeconomic backgrounds remains a prominent negotiation point in modern Chinese marriage considerations.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
family background / social origin
Used to refer to someone's class, ancestry, or socio-economic background, often in marital contexts.
not hold against / overlook / not fuss about
Used when someone deliberately decides to waive grievances or dismiss a disadvantageous factor.