也不能什么都怪我啊
“You cannot blame everything on me.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
小事要多体谅
“and be more understanding about the small ones.”
也不能 什么 都怪我 啊
“You cannot blame everything on me.”
法官 你不要劝了
“Judge, stop trying to persuade me.”
“Stop acting like the innocent victim; this mess is your fault too.”
In Chinese domestic dispute mediation, mediators often encourage mutual forbearance ('体谅'), prompting defensive reactions from parties who feel singled out for blame.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
one cannot simply... / it's unfair to...
Used to protest an unfair generalisation or disproportionate accusation.
blame me for everything
A frequent expression in domestic quarrels to reject unilateral blame.
Conveys an aggrieved, pleading, or protesting emotional tone at the end of the sentence.