你说这么多有的没的重要吗 这些重要
“Does all this back-and-forth really matter? Is this important,”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
你之前不是也救过我吗
“Besides, you've saved me before, too.”
你说这 么多 有的没的 重要吗 这些重要
“Does all this back-and-forth really matter? Is this important,”
还是回家给你奶奶过生日重要
“or is your grandmother's birthday important?”
“You are wasting time arguing over petty nonsense when family should come first.”
In Chinese culture, honoring elder family milestones (like a grandmother's birthday) occupies the absolute highest moral ground, easily trumping interpersonal squabbles.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
irrelevant talk; trivialities
Used colloquially to devalue what the other person is saying as insignificant chatter.
Turns the clause into a rhetorical question to express strong disagreement and reprimand.