二姨 你怎么老跟我说这些事
“Aunt He Lan, why did you say this to me?”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
“how your mother took care of you back then?”
二姨 你 怎么 老 跟我说这些 事
“Aunt He Lan, why did you say this to me?”
之前不是还是你跟我说 让我把她忘了的吗 你这
“Didn't you ask me to forget about her in the past? But…”
“Please stop dragging this painful history back up; I am sick of hearing it.”
Chinese extended family elders often feel entitled to comment on personal family affairs, making direct boundary-setting by younger generations emotionally fraught.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
why always
A frequent colloquial pattern used to express exasperation or complaint about repetitive actions.
these matters / these things
A general referent often used to euphemistically point to known drama or unpleasant past events.