你干吗要让自己 遭那么大的罪啊
“Why torture yourself like this?”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
说断就断了
“Years of affection ended just like that?”
你干吗 要让 自己 遭那么大的罪啊
“Why torture yourself like this?”
再说了 你也应该早点跟爸妈说 这么长时间了
“Besides, you should've told us earlier. After all this time,”
“You break my heart putting yourself through this hell when you didn't have to endure it alone.”
Chinese family dynamics often feature adult children silently absorbing suffering rather than burdening parents, which family members often respond to with loving reproach once discovered.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
suffer; endure hardship
A very common spoken term for physical or emotional torment and agony.
why make yourself...
Rhetorical construction expressing sympathy combined with mild reproach for self-inflicted distress.
Conveys intense emotional involvement, sighing distress, and deep empathy.
