你一个人 是怎么扛过来的
“how did you bear it alone?”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
再说了 你也应该早点跟爸妈说 这么长时间了
“Besides, you should've told us earlier. After all this time,”
你 一个人 是 怎么 扛过来 的
“how did you bear it alone?”
我也不知道
“I don't know, either.”
“It breaks my heart to think about how much pain you suffered all alone without anyone helping you.”
In Chinese family dynamics, children frequently hide difficulties from their parents to spare them worry, which often leaves parents feeling guilt and heartbreak upon discovering the truth.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
to shoulder through / to endure and survive a crisis
A vivid figurative verb meaning to bear immense psychological or physical hardship and come out the other side.
all by oneself / alone
Emphasizes absolute isolation and lack of external assistance.