其他时候你全在否定我
“unless I was the first in my class.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
我从小到大 除非我考第一名 你才会给我肯定
“You've always been disapproving me since my childhood,”
其他时候你 全在否定我
“unless I was the first in my class.”
“You disapprove the dishes I order.”
“You make me feel completely worthless no matter what I do.”
Traditional Chinese parenting often avoids praise to prevent complacency, but modern adult children increasingly push back against this chronic lack of emotional affirmation.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
at other times / the rest of the time
Used to contrast a rare exception with typical everyday situations.
invalidate me / reject me / put me down
A psychological term frequently used in modern spoken Chinese to describe emotional dismissal or disapproval from authority figures.
VOCABULARY & EXPRESSIONS
Parallel Spoken Cinema Scenes (语义近邻切片)
“can't you stop denying me?”
“Mom, can you please stop disapproving me?”
“Sometimes, I blame myself.”
“Wasn't Mr. Sang introduced through your connections? If you reject him now, it's the same as rejecting yourself.”
“Although I was singing a different tune the whole time,”
“I'm the one who's always been against you.”