问题就出在你身上
“The problem is with you.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
问题就出在 你 身上
“The problem is with you.”
“How is it my problem? It's clearly your problem.”
“Do not say 'we' have it hard; this entire mess is your fault.”
Directly telling someone 'the issue is on you' breaks polite face-saving norms and signals severe interpersonal friction or an ongoing argument.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
lie with [someone]; be [someone's] fault
Used to pinpoint the exact person or entity responsible for a flaw, mistake, or breakdown.
the problem lies precisely in...
Used to introduce the diagnosed root cause of an issue decisively.