不给咱家 不给咱妈添乱
“Not causing trouble for the family or Mom.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
“I could finally hold my head up in front of Yan.”
不给 咱家 不给咱妈 添乱
“Not causing trouble for the family or Mom.”
可是
“But”
“I want to solve my own problems so Mom doesn't have to worry about me anymore.”
Adult children in Chinese culture often avoid sharing their personal burdens with aging parents to prevent causing them distress (不添乱).
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
to add trouble / to cause inconvenience
Commonly used in informal speech to mean burdening someone who is already busy or stressed.
our home / our family
A Northern Chinese colloquial pronoun that creates warmth and intimacy among family members.