就是父母之命 媒妁之言
“by parents and matchmakers.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
这婚姻大事
“marriage is decided”
就是 父母之命 媒妁之言
“by parents and matchmakers.”
“Your grandmother just needs to be informed.”
“You have no say in your own marriage; only your parents decide.”
In classical Chinese society, marriages were arranged strictly between families rather than individuals, dictated entirely by parents and negotiated through licensed matchmakers.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
parental bidding and matchmaker's words (traditional arrangement of marriage)
A classic four-character idiom pair used in historical contexts or metaphorical discussions of decisions made without individual consent.