真的能靠识大体撑过去吗？
“did "knowing what's proper" really get you through?”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
被自己郎君冷落的日日夜夜
“Night after night, being neglected by your husband,”
真的 能 靠识大体撑过去 吗 ？
“did "knowing what's proper" really get you through?”
我有圣上的敬重
“I have His Majesty's respect,”
“Stop pretending that being the noble, sensible consort makes up for being totally abandoned.”
In feudal China, noblewomen were heavily socialized to prioritize household harmony and honor ('识大体') over their personal emotional desires.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
to understand the bigger picture; to be sensible and gracious
Often used to praise someone who sacrifices personal feelings or interests for the collective good or dignity.
to hold on; to endure and get through
Describes surviving an intensely painful, difficult, or prolonged hardship.
Forms a rhetorical question that challenges the viability of relying purely on propriety.
