都是你惯的 我跟你说 你这 这么大的事
“You spoiled him. I'm telling you. You didn't talk about”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
干吗呀 拍桌子瞪眼的 跟孩子 你真是的
“What are you doing? You strike the table and get angry with the child. Come on.”
都是你惯的 我跟你说 你这 这么大的事
“You spoiled him. I'm telling you. You didn't talk about”
不跟我商量商量
“such a big thing with me.”
“Don't lecture me about losing my temper—you created this mess by spoiling them, and you hid it from me!”
In Chinese households, conflicts often arise when one parent practices strict discipline while the other is accused of 'guàn' (excessive indulgence/spoiling), seen as ruining the child's future.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
It's all because you spoiled/indulged them.
A classic blame-shifting phrase used between parents when addressing a child's bad behavior.
let me tell you / listen to me
A spoken discourse marker used to command attention, emphasize seriousness, or assert authority in a debate.
Used in the 'shi...de' construction to emphatically assign responsibility or attribution.
