抽时间跟人家聊聊
“find some time to talk to her.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
你和庄庄这个事
“about you and Zhuang Zhuang,”
抽时间 跟 人家 聊聊
“find some time to talk to her.”
“See if her family have any requests,”
“Stop dragging your feet and go find out where you stand with them.”
In Chinese culture, relatives or close mentors often intervene or offer proactive advice regarding matchmaking, dating expectations, and marriage terms to ensure mutual compatibility.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
make time; find time
A very common verb phrase used when carving out time from a busy schedule to address a specific issue.
have a chat with them
Using '人家' softens the reference to the other party, while the reduplicated verb '聊聊' makes the proposed conversation sound approachable and low-pressure.