所以还不如一开始 就不要建立这种关系
“So it's better not to form that kind of bond in the first place.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
“Once you form a bond, you have to face loss someday.”
所以 还不如 一开始 就 不要 建立这种关系
“So it's better not to form that kind of bond in the first place.”
那我呢
“What about me?”
“I am terrified of getting hurt if I let someone close, so it feels safer to keep everyone at arm's length.”
Modern Chinese discourse often reflects tension between deep emotional ties (jiban) and modern self-preservation, where individuals dread the burden and inevitable grief of parting.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
might as well; would be better to
Used to suggest a preferable alternative, often reflecting a sense of compromise or resignation.
from the very beginning
A common temporal marker indicating the onset of an event or state.
build/establish this kind of relationship
Collocation used when discussing the formation of interpersonal or emotional bonds.