我就是想磨磨他的性子
“And yet you're here pretending not to see him. I just want to test his patience.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
“It's not like you don't like him. And yet you're here pretending not to see him.”
我就是想 磨磨他的 性子
“And yet you're here pretending not to see him. I just want to test his patience.”
“I care about him, but I cannot let him think he can take me for granted or act carelessly.”
In Chinese dating dynamics, partners sometimes deliberately suppress enthusiasm early on (磨性子) to humble an arrogant partner and secure mutual long-term balance.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
to temper his personality; to wear down someone's stubbornness or edge
A common colloquial phrase used when training or humbling someone who is perceived as overly proud, impatient, or fiery.