你要教育好了 他这么大 能这么不懂事儿吗
“If you teach him right, would he be so rude at his age?”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
那是你没教育好
“That's on your parenting.”
你要 教育好了 他 这么大 能 这么 不懂事儿 吗
“If you teach him right, would he be so rude at his age?”
“Let's not argue in front of children, okay?”
“You have no right to blame me when his terrible behavior is clearly your failure as a parent.”
Chinese society places immense weight on family education (jiating jiaoyu); a child's bad behavior directly stains the parents' competence and public face.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
lacking good manners / thoughtless / immature
A very common moral descriptor used for young people who fail to act maturely or show filial/social decorum.
at this age / so grown up
Used to emphasize that someone's age warrants more maturity than currently exhibited.
Completes a rhetorical question, reinforcing the aggressive counter-accusation.
