你说 不说话不习惯
“Just talk. I'm not used to you being quiet.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
说了你更不开心
“Because you'll feel even worse.”
你说 不说话 不习惯
“Just talk. I'm not used to you being quiet.”
“How much longer are you going to act weird in front of me?”
“Your silent treatment is driving me crazy, just say what's on your mind!”
In Chinese interpersonal disputes, the 'cold war' (prolonged silence) is deeply stressful, and prompting the other to speak is an attempt to force the unspoken grievance into the open.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
not used to / feels unfamiliar or awkward
Expresses discomfort caused by an atypical behavioral change in a companion or partner.