我就搞不懂这个赵兰心 为什么要这么忍辱负重
“I really don't get Zhao Lanxin. Why would she put herself through all that?”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
“Maybe I've just improved over the past few years.”
我就 搞不懂 这个 赵兰心 为什么要 这么 忍辱负重
“I really don't get Zhao Lanxin. Why would she put herself through all that?”
“It's better to stay single than date a man like Ling Yikai.”
“She is humiliating herself by putting up with him; she should have more self-respect.”
Contemporary Chinese urban women increasingly reject traditional ideals of female endurance ('ren') in favor of self-worth and emotional independence.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
I just can't understand / it's beyond me
An emphatic spoken idiom used to express bewilderment or critical exasperation at someone else's behavior.
to endure humiliation and bear heavy burdens
A traditional four-character idiom (chengyu) often used sarcastically here to describe someone putting up with excessive mistreatment in a relationship.
