孩子毕竟长大了嘛 我想先见见孩子
“he has grown up. I want to see him”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
先商量商量 什么叫应该啊 是必须商量 但是
“with Ziqiu's foster father. What do you mean by that? You must get our permission before doing that! But”
孩子 毕竟 长大了 嘛 我想先 见见孩子
“he has grown up. I want to see him”
听听孩子的想法嘛
“and hear what he thinks.”
“We shouldn't treat them like a baby anymore; let's talk to them directly before making decisions.”
Shifting from traditional parental authority toward respecting an older child's own voice represents modern parenting dynamics in Chinese families.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
after all / when all is said and done
Used to remind the listener of an undeniable, fundamental fact.
has grown up
Used to emphasize maturity, independence, or entering adulthood.
Emphasizes an obvious rationale to make the argument more convincing and gentle.