只不过是以学业为重罢了
“just wanted to prioritize his studies.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
我们家砚哥哥
“My dearest Song Yan”
只不过 是 以学业为重 罢了
“just wanted to prioritize his studies.”
学业为重
“Prioritize his studies?”
“He isn't ignoring people or failing; he is just focusing on what truly matters right now.”
Dedication to education is the most socially sanctioned excuse in Chinese society for delaying romance or social obligations.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
to prioritize...; to place primary importance on...
Standard formal/semi-formal construction used to declare priorities such as family, career, or studies.
to focus primarily on one's studies
A very common social justification used in Chinese culture to deflect dating questions or distractions.
Forms the fixed softening/minimizing phrase '罢了' to suggest there is no other hidden reason.