我自己都没有离婚呢 所以
“I haven't even divorced yet. So I'm not qualified either.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
我不是在说你啊
“I'm not criticizing you.”
我 自己 都 没有离婚 呢 所以
“I haven't even divorced yet. So I'm not qualified either.”
我也不是一对一
“So I'm not qualified either.”
“I'm in no position to judge your situation when my own marriage is also unresolved.”
Sharing one's own unresolved domestic issues is a common conversational tactic in Chinese to eliminate perceived superiority and put the other party at ease.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
even I myself...
Emphasizes personal shortcomings or shared predicaments to show empathy or deflection.
haven't gotten divorced
Refers to maintaining marriage status despite potential estrangement or complications.
Highlights the ongoing state and softens the trailing trailing thought.
VOCABULARY & EXPRESSIONS
Parallel Spoken Cinema Scenes (语义近邻切片)
“It's not your first divorce.”
“Although divorced, we didn't cut ties.”
“The divorce back then wasn't my idea. You don't need to explain to me.”
“I've already filed for divorce.”
“Since we can't get divorced right now, we'll talk about it after the children are born.”
“since your divorce, correct?”