你有没有问过我有没有准备好啊 你自己作了决定
“Did you ever ask me if I was ready? You made the decision yourself”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
我怎么知道你准备好了
“How would I know you're ready?”
你 有没有 问过我 有 没有准备好 啊 你自己 作了 决定
“Did you ever ask me if I was ready? You made the decision yourself”
“and forced me to accept the result. And I can't have any say in it?”
“You don't care about my feelings or consent at all; you only care about imposing your will on me!”
In modern Chinese close relationships, making unilateral decisions without prior consultation (先斩后奏) is often perceived as an egregious violation of equality and personal respect.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
have you or have you not / did you
Commonly used in rapid succession to formulate direct, interrogative questions in emotionally charged arguments.
ready / fully prepared
Use this complement of result to express readiness either physically or psychologically.
made a decision
A standard collocation used to describe making up one's mind or finalizing a choice.
Intensifies the accusatory tone of the rhetorical question, emphasizing grievance.
