结了婚就不能对人心动了吗
“So married ones can't have feelings anymore?”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
但是他结婚了
“But he's married.”
结了婚就不能对人心动了吗
“So married ones can't have feelings anymore?”
心不可控
“The heart can't be controlled.”
“You cannot judge me for having feelings; emotional attraction is beyond rational or legal control.”
Modern Chinese relationship discourse distinguishes between involuntary emotional flutter (xindong) and active infidelity (xingdong), often debating whether emotional attraction outside marriage is blameworthy.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
to feel romantic attraction toward someone
A common spoken collocation used to express an involuntary romantic flutter or emotional attraction.
Marks the completed condition of getting married.
Transforms the assertion into a provocative rhetorical question demanding agreement.
VOCABULARY & EXPRESSIONS
Parallel Spoken Cinema Scenes (语义近邻切片)
“Can't married people have friends of the opposite sex?”
“Why did things become like this after marriage?”
“That's what married people do.”
“Marriage didn't mess up your brain, did it?”
“I never thought of getting married.”
“Should I not have gotten married”