为什么结了婚会变成这样呢
“Why did things become like this after marriage?”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
“Weren't the two of them actually very close before?”
为什么 结了婚 会 变成这样 呢
“Why did things become like this after marriage?”
二旧如果是个暴徒
“If Er Jiu were really some violent monster,”
“It scares me how quickly marriage ruins love; could this happen to us?”
Modern Chinese discourse often laments how everyday domestic burdens and shifting power dynamics extinguish romance after marriage.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
turn out like this / become this way
A very common conversational chunk used to lament an unexpected, undesirable deterioration of affairs.
Softens the rhetorical question and gives it a lingering, reflective, and sorrowful cadence.
VOCABULARY & EXPRESSIONS
Parallel Spoken Cinema Scenes (语义近邻切片)
“Why turn me into a woman?”
“I've got a son like this!”
“How did getting married make you talk like an airhead?”
“How come, when it comes to marriage, you stick rigidly to the rules?”
“How did this happen?”
“What's going on? How did you suddenly get married?”
“How did you suddenly decide to get married?”
“How did you become like this?”
“But after marriage, I realized”
“So why did I end up like this after getting married?”