不是好好的吗 我好好跟你说
“Weren't we fine? Let me explain to you properly.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
你干吗呀 不是
“What are you doing? No...”
不是好好的吗 我 好好跟你说
“Weren't we fine? Let me explain to you properly.”
“Calm down and stop making a scene; let's talk through this rationally.”
In Chinese interpersonal conflicts, appealing to 'talk properly' (好好说) is a standard verbal strategy to urge emotional restraint and avert an outright confrontation.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
in good condition; all right; fine
Commonly used in spoken Chinese to question why a sudden unexpected change or mood swing occurred.
talk to you properly and calmly
Used when urging someone to lower their emotional intensity and have a reasonable conversation.
Forms a rhetorical question expressing surprise and mild bewilderment.