我很困扰的 大哥 好不好
“It's really troubling for me, okay?”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
可是我不习惯啊
“But I'm not used to it.”
我 很困扰 的 大哥 好不好
“It's really troubling for me, okay?”
“Why are you being so nice to me for no reason?”
“Your overwhelming attention is making me uncomfortable, please back off.”
In Chinese relationships, unsolicited kindness from a pursuer creates an uncomfortable moral debt ('renqing'), making the recipient feel pressured rather than touched.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
buddy / man / big brother
Used colloquially as an exasperated exclamation to appeal to someone being unreasonable or persistent.
okay? / will you please?
Added at the end of an exasperated request to urge the listener to comply.
Emphasizes the ongoing factual state of being troubled or uncomfortable.
VOCABULARY & EXPRESSIONS
Parallel Spoken Cinema Scenes (语义近邻切片)
“I think you're in serious trouble. I've always been trouble for others.”
“And all you guys are doing very well too.”