他们都有了自己的主见
“they already have their own opinions”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
你想和他们去交流了
“when you want to communicate with them,”
他们 都有 了 自己的 主见
“they already have their own opinions”
不愿意理你了
“and don't want to communicate with you.”
“They don't need us anymore, and we've lost our say over them.”
Chinese parents often invest heavily in child-rearing and family cohesion; seeing children assert strong autonomy ('主见') evokes both cultural respect for growth and deep emotional loss.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
have developed their own independent minds/opinions
Commonly used to describe children or subordinates who no longer blindly follow orders and think for themselves.
Marks a change of state, highlighting the contrast between the past obedient children and their current independence.