您要是跟他客气 他反倒不自在了
“If you're too formal with him, he'll feel awkward.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
“Oh my dear, why did you buy so many things?”
您 要是 跟他客气 他 反倒 不自在了
“If you're too formal with him, he'll feel awkward.”
“Please just accept his gifts; treating him like an outsider will only make him feel awkward.”
In Chinese culture, excessive politeness (客气) toward close acquaintances or family members can unintentionally signal emotional distance rather than respect.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
standing on ceremony with him / being overly polite to him
Used when advising someone not to treat a close friend or relative like a distant guest.
on the contrary feel awkward or uncomfortable
Useful for explaining an ironic psychological reaction where formality causes unease.
Indicates a resultant state change of becoming uncomfortable.