好 我们丑话说在前面
“Okay, let me make this clear.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
是借你的啦
“I'm lending it to you.”
好 我们 丑话说在前面
“Okay, let me make this clear.”
“Don't take this personally, but business is business even between friends.”
Chinese interpersonal etiquette often avoids direct confrontation, but explicitly announcing 'ugly words upfront' grants social permission to speak bluntly about sensitive matters like money without breaking harmony.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
to lay down the harsh truth or conditions beforehand
A highly frequent idiom used right before bringing up unpleasant terms, conditions, or consequences to avoid future conflict.