这是我第一次谈恋爱 还没满月
“This is my first relationship. It hasn't even lasted a month.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
亲来亲去这种关系 对我们来说真的很奇怪
“Kissing each other Would feel really strange for us.”
这 是我 第一次谈恋爱 还没满月
“This is my first relationship. It hasn't even lasted a month.”
你以为你是坐月子 还满月 我觉得我们
“Less than a month? You think you are in the postpartum period? I don't think”
“This is my first relationship ever, and we haven't even been together for a month—cut me some slack if things feel awkward.”
In traditional Chinese family culture, a newborn reaching one month of age is called 'man yue' (full month), traditionally celebrated with a banquet; the month of postpartum recuperation for the mother is known as 'zuo yue zi' (sitting the month). Here, the speaker playfully borrows 'man yue' to vividly emphasize how brand-new their relationship is, which prompts the witty retort regarding postpartum confinement.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
to be in a romantic relationship; to date someone
The most common colloquial verb-object phrase used to describe dating or being in a romantic relationship.
a baby reaching one month old (literal); humorously used here to mean being together for barely a month
Originally referring to an infant's one-month milestone, applying it to a romantic relationship is humorous personification, commonly heard in informal teasing.
VOCABULARY & EXPRESSIONS
Parallel Spoken Cinema Scenes (语义近邻切片)
“She's never even dated.”
“I've never been in a relationship. I'm truly looking forward to it.”
“Dating without purpose would hurt both sides.”
“Are you seeing someone?”
“You haven't even been in a relationship. You and me— of course it's impossible.”
“I have never been in a relationship. Cut it out!”
“I've never been in love.”
“You finally had a proper relationship.”
“If he were dating, I'd know about it.”
“Back then, I had never even been in a relationship.”