你说我能不发脾气吗
“Of course I lose my temper.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
但是恰好 我第二天上午要开会
“But I happen to have a meeting then.”
你说 我能不发脾气吗
“Of course I lose my temper.”
“You really need to see through things.”
“Given how tight my schedule was, of course I lost my temper—anyone would have!”
In Chinese social interaction, losing emotional control is typically frowned upon, so individuals often appeal to shared reason ('你说') to legitimize an emotional breakdown as inevitable.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
to lose one's temper
The standard colloquial expression for visibly getting angry or venting frustration.
Tell me, how could I not...?
A classic rhetorical pattern used to demand agreement that one's reaction was entirely justified.
Forms a rhetorical question that strongly implies the opposite statement is an undeniable fact.