你是故意躲着 不来见我的
“You deliberately avoided me.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
你是 故意躲着 不 来见我 的
“You deliberately avoided me.”
你往家里拿了一箱子书
“You brought a box of books home”
“Don't pretend it was just a coincidence; admit that you actively ran away from me.”
In Chinese relational dynamics, uncomfortable feelings are often handled through non-confrontational avoidance ('躲着'), which can cause deep hurt when finally unmasked by direct confrontation.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
deliberately avoiding; purposefully hiding from
Used in intimate or relational disputes when one party senses that the other is evading direct contact or conversation.
come see me; meet with me
Standard conversational construction expressing interpersonal visitation or rendezvous.
Emphasizes the established fact and certainty of the manner/intent behind the avoidance in the 'shi... de' construction.
VOCABULARY & EXPRESSIONS
Parallel Spoken Cinema Scenes (语义近邻切片)
“(Is she deliberately avoiding me?)”
“You didn't follow me here just to cause trouble, did you?”
“You weren't avoiding me on purpose, were you?”
“you've been avoiding me.”
“Are you intentionally avoiding us?”
“Stop dodging my question. Look at me.”