自己却藏着掖着
“while keeping things hidden myself,”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
“Demanding absolute trust from others”
自己 却 藏着掖着
“while keeping things hidden myself,”
“aren't you bothered by my double standards?”
“I know I am being completely unfair and hypocritical towards you.”
Openly identifying one's own double standards ('双标') softens the other party's resentment and demonstrates emotional maturity and self-awareness.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
to hide and conceal / to be evasive and secretive
A vivid colloquial idiom describing someone being deliberately secretive or withholding information.